New York, New Home

As the youngest in my family, leaving the farthest for college was a huge change for me and my family. Being in Brooklyn, New York for about two months now, I am starting to adjust and settle in to my new home. It is all exciting and nerve wracking at the same time. New York and San Diego are quite a bit different. I entered such a culture shock that I am learning to love. From trying to survive the cold wind chills and watching the leaves change, I have learned things about myself and matured so much in such a short amount of time.

I have enjoyed blogging and running the social media sites for Farmers Insurance this past year. Now that I am finally settled in college I will continue to blog from the east coast. To update you, I am majoring in Sports Management and I am excited to see what my faith has in store for me. I understand leaving home and what you are comfortable with is never easy for anyone. I hope I can share some helpful tips throughout my time in college for students, athletes, and families.

Living On Your Own

Mom and dad are unfortunately not there anymore to do your laundry, watch all your sporting games, make sure you are on top of your homework, or make your meals. If you haven't already figured it out, you will. And for the parents, don't worry, we won't starve. 

I've realized waiting until you run out of any clean clothes and underwear probably isn't the best idea. Do your laundry weekly if you can before you spend your only day off waiting for your wash in the washers and dryers that are most likely out of order. Parents, I've learned Tide Pods are the easiest way to go, so if you're sending any care packages including some of those every once in awhile won't hurt. 

Time management is key. Work smart. Do the work you have to with the amount of effort that is needed to get a good grade. Balance school and play. Find a happy medium between school work and leisure activities.

Adjusting To Your New Home

Coming from an extremely close knit family, I was very scared to travel 3,000+ miles away for school. But, I have realized being so far away has made us so much closer, and so much more appreciative of each others company. I am so grateful to have such a loving, strong-faithed family that I know is still there for me no matter the distance. 

FaceTime, texts, and calls have definitely help. I experienced homesickness, but just a daily little text helps. The phone goes both ways. Never think you're "too cool" to call and check in on the parents they are experiencing loneliness just like you.

Never loose sight of your goals. It helps me get through little daily struggles knowing I am working towards something bigger than the homework assignment I got a bad grade on that I spent so much time on. 

Keep your faith and family close to you and things will work out. Stay patient and persistent. Check in next week for my favorite stress reliever!

With gratitude,
Amanda